It’s a competitive world and it’s bloody hard to get your more than far share of resources, power and fame.
As such, I have noticed that some women that wander into fields dominated by men (science, technology, engineering etc), lacking the talent and skills to succeed naturally, turn to the dark arts.
They use a three pronged attack:
1. Coquettishness – subliminal flirting to the blokes, looking for a leg-up, so to speak. This is always aimed ‘upwards’ in a company, or a field. Its all about getting ahead by patronage based on unmet desires of old blokes with old wives, dreaming of the youth that they wasted in hard work,(how they got to their positions).
2. The inequality card – many of these same women will also talk up inequality, the lack of female representation in their fields or companies. Of course they are the direct beneficiary of any corrective action, so this makes sense. They especially love affirmative action – the promotion of a less qualified woman over a more qualified bloke.
3. The victim card – at some point they will seek more attention by claiming that one of the targets of Coquettishness crossed the line. If you stand close to the fire it will eventually burn you. When they go public as a victim they are actually seeking compensation in the form of promotion of their position. Or they are just seeking attention, something else they crave.
I have noticed that the chicks that play these three cards usually don’t end up in happy relationships, or relationships at all. It would appear that blokes aren’t that stupid as a class of humans. They can sense the self serving stupidity of these women.
The very best thing you can do is completely ignore them; it drives them crazy.